I love to play golf, although most of the time, golf plays me. Invariably, when you approach the first tee box to start your round, someone will ask, “What tees are we playing?” If you’re not a golfer, it’s probably easy to figure out that some tees make a course play longer than others. Women typically play from the reds (the shortest distance from tee to green), professionals play from the tips (the long tees) and seniors play from somewhere in-between. Many men will play from the whites (slightly longer than the reds) or the blues, depending on their skill and their appetite for challenge.
As you approach the tee, the question (and the answer) says something about you. How confident are you in your game? Are you a risk-taker? Are you more likely to protect yourself from embarrassment or to demonstrate your sense of adventure? Are you out to have fun, to win or to just get by? No matter your skill, Annika can likely beat you from any tee box. The Japanese almost always play from the tips. Why? Because the cost of golf is so high in Japan that they want the best value for their money. And although I’ve tried to negotiate often, my wife won’t let me play against her from the reds.
What about you? No, I’m not asking about golf. I’m asking whether you’re playing from the whites or the tips– in your work, in your play and in your life. Are you challenging yourself every day, or just getting by? Are you playing from where you’re least likely to get in trouble, or from where you can get the greatest satisfaction from your triumph? Are you playing to your ability, or are you stretching yourself– always pushing yourself to bigger and better things, and greater levels of achievement? Are you taking on the trees, bunkers and water from the tips, or are you taking them out of play from the whites?